Sunday, December 6, 2009

Chris Wheeler, Philadelphia Phillies Announcer, signs book in Newtown Square PA Dec 13, 2009

Philadelphia Phillies Broadcaster, Chris Wheeler is coming to The BrynChester Luxury Condominiums!
Chris will be signing his new book View From The Booth, Four Decades With The Phillies
Sunday, December 13th from 1-3
What a great gift for that special Phillies fan! Only $20.00 Signed and personalized by Chris.
Reserve your book today. Call: 610-353-0100 or email: MegSheaRealtor@comcast.net
The BrynChester is located at 3503 Rhoads Avenue, Newtown Square PA
(corner of Bryn Mawr Avenue and West Chester Pike)

Friday, August 7, 2009

Dana M. Breslin: she lends a helping hand to Delco elderly


A Delaware County attorney who finds senior citizens fascinating has been tapped by an advocate to provide vital legal advice for the elderly.Dana M. Breslin, of Wallingford, with a law office in Brookhaven, first met Carl Clauss, also of Wallingford, at a now defunct community service program about ten years ago.Clauss had launched a new program at Senior Community Services (SCS) a couple of years ago to assist the elderly with their financial, legal and medical assistance issues."Dana is my prime elder law attorney," Clauss said. "She handles most of the legal problems they are having. I'll talk to Dana or Linda (Anderson) and get some help with providing a source of information."We are very fortunate in Delaware County to have an elder law group who really are concerned about representing their constituency. If somebody is having problems with a home or taxes at their house, or I see they are having problems handling their own affairs, I call Dana."Questions on should someone have power of attorney can be answered. Living wills are easy, but seniors have to very careful,” Clauss said.Breslin, who co-chairs the Delaware County Bar Association Elder Law Committee with Anderson, received her bachelor's degree from Immaculata in 1972 and her law degree from Villanova University in 1975.1975 was a monumental year for Breslin who was admitted to the Pennsylvania Bar and became actively involved in the Delaware County Bar Association (DCBA) where she continues to serve on a variety of committees.Since 1996 Breslin has been deemed a certified elder law attorney by the National Elder Law Foundation. She is a Fellow with American College of Trust and Estate Counsel, an active member of the Pennsylvania Bar Association (PBA), and a member of the Real Property, Probate and Trust Section of the PBA.She chaired the PBA Elder Law Committee in 1999, was the first chair of the Elder Law Section of PBA in 2000 and continues to serve on the council of the Elder Law Section. For the last ten years, Breslin has been an active member of the National Association of Elder Law Attorneys.According to Breslin, the DCBA has a variety of committees to address special concerns including Elder Law, Family Law and others."We started the Elder Law Committee eight to ten years ago so we could have training and discussions on issues concerning the elderly," Breslin said, naming Medicare Part D as an example. "It's a complicated government system. Attorneys can be more aware."Breslin is a frequent lecturer and current vice president for the Delaware County Estate Planning Council.A faculty member at the Estate Law Institute, Breslin also serves on the board of the Pennsylvania Health Law Project and Senior Community Services Inc."I like reaching out to seniors who need help," Breslin said. "Some senior citizens get caught up in an economic bind and it started before the economy went sour. Some people are using their credit cards for pharmacy bills."Carl will call me when he's at the center and needs an answer right away or he has a Social Security problem. I'm not the only one he calls. Carl is excellent in coordinating."Breslin cited other attorneys on the Delco Elder Law Committee who have assisted Clauss including co-chair Linda Anderson, Harris Resnick, Cyndi McNicholas, Jeff Lewin, Rob DeLong, Janet Lis, Dave Hennessey, Mike Defino, Ross Schmucki, Mike Friedman and Bob Gasparo, who have all helped.Clauss has partnered with SCS, Widener University School of Law, the Elder Law Committee of Delaware County Bar Association, Legal Aid of Southeastern Pennsylvania and COSA, the County Office of Services for the Aging, to offer assistance to older adults.Both Breslin and Clauss have a special place in their hearts for the elderly who are particularly vulnerable to the problems that arise due to the lack of income."I wanted to focus my work on an individual basis to help seniors," Clauss said, noting he established the program together with other resources to assist senior citizens with all their problems."The Widener Law Clinic and the Elder Law Committee of the Delaware County Bar Association have been very supportive of the program," Clauss said. "Recently Professor Nick Nichols of Widener obtained funding for two fellowships this summer for two law students that have completed their second year. We have arranged for them to work with the elder law attorneys and me at the senior centers to expand our counseling program for legal, medical and financial help."According to Clauss, Widener is presenting a program for seniors on avoiding debt collectors."I like working with the elderly," Breslin said. "When I was in law school there was not anything on elder law. Older people tend to take more time. I find them fascinating; they have more life experiences."Breslin sees the biggest issue facing senior citizens is how they will pay for long term care."Their fear is that the nursing home will take it all," Breslin said. "The most recent problem, financial abuse of the elderly, starts with marketers who sell products like annuities, certain types of annuities, or the living trust mills to family members who are taken advantage of due to economic times."Right now Breslin is concerned about House Bill 1351 introduced by Dwight Evans regarding estate recovery."When someone 55 and older needs help at home or a nursing home, the state seeks to reimburse," Breslin said. "HB 1351 expands to non-probate access. The bill is really detrimental especially to the surviving spouse when a house is held jointly by husband and wife. The state would have an invisible lien. There's been a state outcry."Breslin continues to be at the forefront in developing continuing legal education courses for attorneys in the estate and trust areas and is the course planner for the Pennsylvania Elder Law Institute that encompasses the whole spectrum of estate and financial planning for the elderly.It’s comforting for Clauss and Delco elderly residents to know they have someone on their side.Dana Breslin, Esq. To read more about Dana go to: http://pappanoandbreslin.com/
This article appears in the August 6th edition of The Town Talk newspapers at: http://www.delconewsnetwork.com/articles/2009/08/07/media_town_talk/news/doc4a7b32fae379b628343628.txt

Wednesday, July 22, 2009




The Pennsylvania Veterans Museum Invites You…
Our special friends, neighbors and volunteers…
RIBBON CUTTING
Korean War Exhibits
and the New Entrance on State Street (Trader Joe's Side) WHEN: July 26, 2009 Sun, 12.00pm
LIVE OUTDOOR MUSIC FEATURING :
Theresa Agostinelli , Guitarist Vocalist @ 1 pm

WHERE: Pennsylvania Veterans Museum
12 East State Street
Media, PA 19063
610-566-5196-museum, 619-566-0788-office
***If you know any Korean War veterans who may have any memorabilia that they would like to share with the museum for that weekend, please contact the museum offices at 610-566-0788***

Refreshments will be served

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Back to School: Are you a teacher who is taking care of your aging elderly senior loved one during the summer?

Have you been making meals, driving to doctor's appointments, helping with bathing or reminding a loved one to take their medication this summer? If so, you might be concerned about how he or she will manage when you got back to school next month. Well, we might have the answer for you. Hire a Comfort Keeper!
At Comfort Keepers®, nothing is more important than helping people live full, independent and dignified lives within the comfort of their own homes. Comfort Keepers is dedicated to providing in-home care that enriches our clients' lives and helps them maintain the highest possible level of independent living.

Comfort Keepers provide you or a loved one in-home assistance that may include:
companionship,meal preparation,transportation to doctor appointments or other commitments
light housekeeping or in-home safety technology. From Interactive Caregiving where our employees deliver care that encompasses physical activity, mental stimulation, social engagement and emotional health that can genuinely change a person’s life to the Personal Emergency Response System (more commonly known as Help Me I Fallen machine), our Comfort Keepers in the Delaware County, PA area can help as little as 2 hour visits up to 24 hours a day. Our offices nationally can provide to your loved one in states other than PA as well.

All of our Comfort Keepers are employed, bonded and insured with workers' compensation. They have criminal background checks completed prior to our office providing them with hands on training. In Delaware County PA, our Registered Nurse trains all of our staff and assists families in coordinating care at home and with the doctor when family cannot be there.

Let us help take some of your stress away this fall. Call for more information about our services in Delaware, Montgomery, Philadelphia and Chester Counties, PA. FREE in-home consultations as well as FREE Installation on the (PERS)Personal Emergency Response System when you mention this blog. PERS have a monthly charge in Delaware County of $29.99 and the charge is month to month. No long term contracts. Once installed, our staff can remove the equipment at anytime with no penalty. Call today 610-543-6300 for more information or go to our website:
http://www.comfortkeepers.com/caregivers/326/. For an office outside the state of PA, go to http://www.comfortkeepers.com/ and click on Locations.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

PA Veterans Museum in Media, PA celebrates new Korean War exhibit - Veterans and families invited FREE



Invites
Korean War Veterans and their families
to the opening of our
Korean War Exhibits
and the New Entrance on State Street
Our unveiling is in observance of the 56th anniversary of the end of the Korean War. The new interactive kiosks present inspiring and educational information in the Museum’s traditional method of providing firsthand accounts by those who experienced service and sacrifice during wartime.
WHEN: July 25, 2009 Saturday, VIP reception from 4 PM - 7 PM
The museum will hold a ribbon cutting ceremony at
5:00 PM for the Korean War Exhibits.

WHERE: Pennsylvania Veterans Museum
12 East State Street
Media, PA 19063
610-566-5196

***If you have any memorabilia that you would like to share with the museum for that weekend, please contact the museum offices at 610-566-0788***
Refreshments will be served
The Exhibits will open to the public Sunday, July 26, 2009. The museum will hold a ribbon cutting ceremony to open the new entry on State Street located to the right of the armory’s classic iron gate. The museum will be open from Noon to 5 PM
Visit our website at http://www.paveteransmuseum.org/

Friday, June 26, 2009

Care Givers Anxiety? Are you providing care for aging, sick or disabled loved one in Glen Mills, PA, delaware county, chester county area

Are You Experiencing Care Givers Anxiety?
Currently, studies show, three-quarters of those who remain in their homes depend solely on family and friends to meet their day-to-day needs with no professional support whatsoever. Sadly, family caregivers have little or no information or training about how to care for the physical and emotional needs for their ailing loved one. Rarely does anyone pay attention to the caregiver’s declining physical and emotional health, and many risk becoming patients themselves. For instance, When was the last time someone asked, “How are you doing?” Rarely does anyone really know about hands-on care, tube feedings, transferring bed-bound patients to wheelchairs or commodes, turning them to avoid bedsores, making judgments about which symptoms require immediate medical attention, and interacting with a cast of professionals often short on time, patience or shared information about the patient.
But at long last, this terrible disconnect can be avoided with professional support and advocacy. You may be looking for someone experienced in options for home health care or even care giver stress relief. You may feel stressed out, and overwhelmed with life. You may be noticing major conflict in the home with other family members.
What causes conflict?
Misperceptions. Role changes. Unresolved issues.
Misperceptions
It’s a common situation. A holiday or other event brings the family together, and there is a high expectation of joy and good times. That’s just the time when many families go into turmoil. Someone says something that is misinterpreted, and the battle begins.
These family squabbles often lead to years of heartbreak for all concerned.
Make sure before you get angry with the person you are caring for that you have your facts correct. Ask another family member for their impression of the argument -You may avoid unneccessary hurt.
Role Changes
Many of you, I’m sure, have stories of taking a loved one home from the hospital with no instructions on follow-up care and no one to call when you find yourself in trouble. What does it mean to be responsible for a sick, frail or disoriented loved one when you have no idea how to take care of them properly and nobody assigned to guide you? This can be confusing and sometimes caregivers wonder why the person they are caring for is not cooperative and caregiver stress can escalate. As caregivers you may need to make decisions that are challenging and unfamiliar to you. You find your self caring for a parent and it can be frightening for all those in your household.
You may experience resentment for input you have or decisions you are facing for the person or persons you now care for. This leaves you with responsibility, but lacking knowledge or resources needed for this new role in your life.
The persons you care for may view you as the enemy and may not understand you.
You will need to set reasonable limits before embarking on this role change, and learn to set boundaries and limits — for you , and your family as well as the person or persons you are caring for. Your mental health is very important at this time.
Unresolved Issues
Unfortunately, too many caregivers are not prepared emotionally, financially or physically for this new role. It is worse when the relationship was not good to begin with and both parties find themselves with little or no choice in the matter. Old feelings resurface and unresolved issues begin to nag you. You may now feel that you must do everything for the person you care for out of a sense of guilt, or an unwarranted sense of obligation. Angry feelings may surface and depression and anxiety can set in.
You, as a caregiver, may be feeling remorse, regret or frustration as you find yourself faced with caring for aging parents.
A skilled, experienced counselor can be of great help in this process. To learn more about counseling and how to get started, go to http://www.glenmillscounseling.org/

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Seniors and Dehydration, Tips for preventing dehydration in our aging loved ones

Seniors at Greater Risk of Dehydration
Dehydration is one of the leading causes of hospitalization among seniors. The federal Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality reports that five to six times as many patients age 65 and over are admitted for the condition as those in the 45-64 age group. Dehydration tends to set in quickly and catch older Americans off guard, because as we age our sense of thirst dulls and the water content of our bodies decreases.

Take dehydration seriously; it can be life-threatening. Warning signs vary but may include:
Lack of energy
Headache, nausea, and/or dizziness
Darkening or decrease in urine
Fever

To prevent dehydration:
Set up a drinking schedule and follow it. Drink six to eight glasses of water a day
Provide fluid from a variety of sources, such as fruits and vegetables, milk, broth, popsicles etc.
Avoid alcohol and caffeinated drinks; they increase water loss
Increase fluids on hot days. And be aware that dehydration can be a threat to seniors in cold, dry winter months, too, when one is less likely to feel the need to quench thirst.
This article brought to you by Comfort Keepers, providing assisted living services in your home. For more information and to arrange FREE in-home visit, call 610-543-6300.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Aging Veterans Unaware Of VA Pension Benefit -Aid and Attendance

Aging Veterans Unaware of VA Pension Benefits – Millions of veterans and widows lose out on billions of benefits
For aging veterans, one of their most important benefit programs is the Veterans Non-Service Connected Improved Pension Benefit Program. Established to assist qualified veterans, and/or their surviving spouses and family, the Veterans NSC Improved Pension Benefit Program provides financial support that enables veterans to live independently while receiving the quality of care they deserve. In particular, funds are available for aging veterans who need assistance with medical and non-medical care both in the home and in qualified facilities.
In many cases, veterans, along with their spouses and family, are unaware that this program exists. According to VA analysis, only 27 percent of veterans and 14 percent of widow(er)s who are likely eligible, actually receive any money from the program.
Types of Care EligibleThe availability of this program is something all veterans and their widow(er)s should know. Seniors in our country are now living longer. With higher living costs and the continued rise in healthcare expenditures, many seniors are at risk of quickly depleting their savings. Programs like the Veterans NSC Improved Pension Benefit Program can fund services like in-home care, assisted living facility expenses and other medical costs that many seniors face.
“We see many clients that are faced with the difficult task of covering their healthcare expenses,” said Clark Bongaardt of Springfield, PA Comfort Keepers. “If they qualify for these funds, it takes a huge burden off of veterans and their families. This money can be used to ensure they are given access to the care they need.”
QualificationsTo qualify for the Veterans NSC Improved Pension Benefit Programs, a veteran must have 90 days or more of active duty with at least one of those days served during a US-declared war. The benefits are designed for those who meet specific financial criteria and demonstrate a physical need for healthcare.
The Department of Veterans Affairs determines active duty as full-time service, other than active duty for training, as a member of the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps, Coast Guard, or as a commissioned officer of the Public Health Service, Environmental Science Services Administration or National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration, or its predecessor, the Coast and Geodetic Survey.Other qualifications and considerations:• Discharge for any reason other than dishonorable conditions• Over the age of 65 or disabled• Total financial assets• Physical condition• Current marital status (if you are the surviving spouse of a veteran)• Total gross income versus medical deduction
Costly MisunderstandingThere are several reasons why veterans are unaware or misunderstand these benefits. First is the very name of the benefit itself – improved pension benefit. Pension benefits usually come after years of service, not after only 90 days of service.
In addition, many veterans often assume the available benefits are for those who have a service-related disability not just because they turned 65. As the name implies, this program is a non-service connected benefit.
Finally, it is uncommon for a benefit to be available in part just by virtue of age. However, the Veteran NSC Improved Pension Benefit does not require a qualified veteran to have any disability provided that they are over the age of 65.
Many of the Comfort Keepers can assist in accessing the information necessary to evaluate a person’s eligibility for the Veterans Improved Pension Benefit Program. To find which ones, locate your Comfort Keepers on the website and contact the office directly. To access the webiste click HEREComfort Keepers can provide professional guidance while the applicant is completing the necessary paperwork and being assessed for eligibility for the Veterans Improved Pension Benefit Program. Once approved, Comfort Keepers can be the solution for quality in-home care.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Veterans' Aid and Attendance Benefit Seminars set for June Southeast PA FREE

Ever heard of the Veterans Non-Service Connected Improved Pension?
The Veterans Non-Service Connected Improved PensionThis pension benefit program is federally funded for veterans and/or their surviving spouses age 65 or older. It's designed to fund in-home care for those who meet established criteria. It may be in addition to a VA Pension or a VA Compensation. If you or your spouse meets the criteria established by the VA, you might qualify to get an additional $1000 per month from the VA. Some of the basic criteria are:
Total Financial Assets – aid is based on financial need for assistance
Physical Condition – veteran or spouse must require assistance with daily living skills
Current Marital Status – veteran may be alive or passed but must married to spouse
Total Gross Income versus Medical Deduction – current income versus medical expenses
How Can Comfort Keepers® Help?We will provide you with professional guidance while you are completing the necessary paperwork and being assessed for eligibility for the Veterans Non-Service Connected Improved Pension. While your application is being processed, Comfort Keepers can be your solution for quality in-home care. Comfort Keepers provides services such as light housekeeping, transportation, laundry, meals, assistance with bathing and grooming and medication reminders in the home, hospital or facility. All of caregivers are our employees, bonded, insured with background checks.
What to know more? Think you might qualify? Answer the following questions and if you meet the basic requirements, Comfort Keepers will (with your consent) have a member of the Government Benefits Staff contact you to review the answers and assist with paperwork for FREE. Comfort Keepers uses third party to assist with paperwork because it involves disclosure of your income and assets and Comfort Keepers prohibits its staff from access or knowledge of your finances. Call Comfort Keepers – 610-543-6300 for more information. or to attend a FREE educational session on this benefit, rsvp at the above phone number. The dates for the upcoming sessions are: June 9, 2009 at 1pm at Rocky Run YWCA right past the Granite Run Mall south on route 1 in Media or on June 11, 2009 at 2pm at Rose Tree Place on Sandy Bank Road in Media, PA. If unable to attend please call for more information.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Seniors Safety Choice and Independence at Home, How technolgy can help







A growing number of older Americans choose to continue living
in their homes as long as they can. The MetLife Mature Marketing
Institute reports that 91 percent of Americans who are approaching
retirement age — those 50 to 65 — say they want to remain in their own
homes after they retire.
Responding to this “aging in place” trend, a variety of organizations
have created solutions to assist seniors with living safely and
independently in their own homes. For example, the National
Association of Home Builders has created the Certified Aging-in-
Place Specialist program to help seniors adapt their homes for their
later years. The trend also will call for increased in-home caregiving
services. As the Centers for Disease Control reported in the 2007
“State of Aging and Health in America,” 88 percent of seniors have at
least one chronic health condition and 30 percent have three or more.
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services adds that more
than two-thirds of older Americans who need daily assistance are now
living at home. This includes more than 70 percent of persons with
Alzheimer’s disease.
The Challenges Of Aging
Our nation’s elderly population is increasing at a far greater rate than
the overall population, a result of advances in medical science and
technology that have lengthened life expectancy. The 65 and older
population increased eleven-fold during the 20th century, compared
to three-fold for the entire population.
Now at nearly 40 million, the 65+ group will more than double by
2050. This growth will be fueled by 76 million baby boomers, the
first of whom will turn 65 in 2011. Consequently, current systems for
elderly care are being stretched. And as more and more seniors choose
“home sweet home” over institutional care, demand for in-home
caregivers — professional and family — will increase. To read more about safety at home and how technology can help, click on the webstite: http://www.comfortkeepers.com/content/view/274/284/

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Local Comfort Keepers Owners win Presidents' Award at annual convention April 2009

COMFORT KEEPERS OWNER WINS NATIONAL RECOGNITION

Mainline, Philadelphia, Montgomery and Delaware County Areas – Clark and Sallie Bongaardt not only provide non-medical in-home services to area families, but were recently honored by CK Franchising, Inc. for their performance as Comfort Keepers franchise owners. The Bongaardts were recognized at the Celebration Dinner and Awards Ceremony during the Comfort Keepers Annual National Convention held in Louisville, KY in April of 2009.

Clark and Sallie received one of the top honors of the evening when they were inducted into the President’s Club for the fifth year in a row. Owners are selected for this honor based on several criteria including hours of service, revenues, and the adherence to the ideals and standards of the Comfort Keepers’ system. At the Awards’ Ceremony, Lisa Ripley, of CK Franchising, Inc., presented the Bongaardts with a crystal award to commemorate their achievement.

“Being recognized as one of the top performers in the Comfort Keepers system was a great honor,” said Clark Bongaardt.

In addition to the President’s Club award, Comfort Keepers of the Mainline, Philadelphia, Montgomery and Delaware County areas was recognized for hitting weekly operational milestones for hours of service provided to clients. “Ask any senior and most will tell you that they prefer to stay in their own home as long as possible,” said Sallie Bongaardt. “I am thrilled to own a business that can make their wishes a reality.”

Comfort Keepers provides in-home services on an hourly, daily or weekly basis with tailored care plans customized to an individual’s needs. Services offered include companionship, personal care assistance, meal preparation, light housekeeping, grocery shopping, incidental transportation, laundry, recreational activities, and more. All caregivers are employees and have criminal, driving, and credit background checks as well as personal and business reference checks that ensure dependability and reliability.

About Comfort Keepers
Clark and Sallie Bongaardt opened their Comfort Keepers’ business on July 1, 2002. Their office is an approved agency providing Medicaid services through the Pennsylvania Department of Welfare and the Delaware County Office of Services for the Aging. They are members of the Greater Springfield Business Alliance, the Delaware County Chamber of Commerce and the National Private Duty Association. Clark and Sallie are lifelong residents of the Delaware County area and have both worked in the area in the legal profession for over 20 years. Clark is a retired attorney and has been a member of the Delaware County Bar Association for 25 years.
Since opening in July, 2002, the Bongaardts have provided service to numerous residents in the area.

Founded in 1998 by a registered home health care nurse and her husband, the Comfort Keepers franchise system has grown to over 500 locations in 44 states, Canada, the UK, Australia, New Zealand, and Ireland. Comfort Keepers has ranked as one of the top three franchises in senior care Entrepreneur magazine’s Franchise 500 for the past four years. For more information about Comfort Keepers, visit http://www.comfortkeepers.com/. Each office is independently owned and operated.# # #

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Best of Delco The Delaware County Daily Times 10th annual Best of contest please vote Comfort Keepers Senior Services 2009 Best of Delco

The 10th Annual Best of Delco contest is currently running from May 16 to May 26, 2009. Comfort Keepers has been nominated by the public to run in the Services Category under Best of Senior Services. Providing in-home non-medical services to anyone over the age of 18, Comfort Keepers of Delaware County serves many many seniors in their private home, assisted living and other facilities. Our award winning caregiving staff has won the prestigious John H. Bauer Direct Caregiver of the Year Award from the County Office Services for the Aging (COSA) in 2006 and 2007. In 2008, COSA awarded the Barbara White Direct Caregiver of the Year Award to another one of our caregivers. Also the Delaware County office has the 2006 National Comfort Keeper of the Year Award which is given by the corporate Comfort Keepers after nominations are made from over 550 offices around the country. The winner 5 years running of the Presidents' Award, the Delaware County Comfort Keepers hopes to add the Best of Delco title to its already impressive set of awards. Please vote for Comfort Keepers in The Daily Times' Best of Delco contest. For more information about the awards and our community outreach, see our webpage at: http://www.comfortkeepers.com/caregivers/326/

Friday, May 15, 2009

Channel 10-nbc philadephia article on Duck Derby Race Sat May 16, 2009 ntbf not to be forgotten

5 Bucks for a Duck
By KELLY BAYLISS

Adopt a ducky, help a senior, win a prize

The Not-to-be-Forgotten Foundation, a charity that helps seniors, wants you to adopt a duck to race against other ducks in the Pennsylvania Ducky Derby.
Why? Well, because this month is Older American Month and the adoptions will help seniors with bills, heating, needs and wishes.
Adopting one duck for $5 will help heat a senior home for more than eight hours. Six ducks will run you $25, but will heat a home for a day and half. If you're feeling really generous. Throw up $50 and that'll buy three days worth of warmth for a senior who simply needs the help.
The adopted yellow duckies will be tagged and dropped into the Delaware at Governor Printz Park in Essington. The winning ducks will win their "parents" prizes.
The big race takes place this Saturday, May 16 at 1 p.m. You don't have to be present to claim you're prize if your baby wins -- the Foundation will contact you.

This article appeard on Channel 10 -nbc philadelphia's website http://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/around_town/the_scene/5-Bucks-for-a-Duck.html

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Fair Trade Town Committee of Media Invites Everyone to Prom Night:Party with a Purpose Fundraiser May 16, 2009 7pm Media, PA

Tango Hop Demonstration & Lesson, Dancing, Silent Auction, Food are Highlights
Media, PA (May 1, 2009) – The community is invited to “Prom Night 2009: A Party with a Purpose,” a special fundraising event for all ages set for Saturday, May 16,
7 - 10 PM at Media Borough Community Center, Fourth & Jackson Streets in Media. Tickets, at $20, are on sale at Earth & State (23 W. State Street in Media), or by calling Barbara at 215-601-0038. Proceeds benefit Media’s Fair Trade Town Committee –
the group which organized last September’s highly-successful Fair Trade Live! and brought national and international attention to Media by becoming America’s First Fair Trade Town. Please visit www.visitmediapa.com/fairtrade for event details, our list of silent auction items, and for information about Media and Fair Trade.

Don’t miss this opportunity to get decked out (or come as you are), to dance the
night away to classic hits and current favorites, and to join in fun for attendees of all generations. There is no dress code: come in funky attire, go elegant or retro, or
pull out your worst or best bridesmaid dress! You may bring your best date or come solo, but be ready to dance the night away to classic and modern music. Highlights include: a chance to move to the hottest Latin rhythms as Media’s own Tango Hop gives demonstration and a mini-lesson from 7-8 PM; a Silent Auction, and food to munch on. Media performance artist The Great Quentini will make a special appearance (www.quentini.com). Also, fun door prizes will be awarded for the Most Outrageous, Most Elegant, and Most Retro attire, announced by Honorary MC
Tom Hibberd.
Silent Auction Items include: Certified, Signed Brian Dawkins Gameday Eagles jersey; A Will, Living Will and Power of Attorney (Gibley and McWilliams, P.C. Attorney Fred August Nehr); Three Sessions Leadership Coaching (Wisdom At Work); Gift Cards for The Media Theater, Brodeur’s, Salon Bella Gente, others; Public Relations or Corporate Resume Writing (Ayars Communications); Two Hours “Handyman” Services (The Handy Man); Home Goodie Basket & Expert Home Market Evaluation (Jill Goldman, Keller Williams); Special Meal in Paradise, PA (ride included); a Home-Cooked Meal; wonderful items from Ten Thousand Villages; Membership to Selene Co-op; Tango Hop beginner dance lessons, and many more.
What is Fair Trade? Fair Trade is a practice that guarantees family farmers and workers will receive fair wages for their harvests: a comprehensive social-economic tool strong enough to raise the standard of living for millions of people. Media, PA became America’s First Fair Trade Town in July 2006. Our town’s leadership has inspired nine more U.S. towns to
follow suit, with 20 or more towns close to making the Fair Trade Town declaration.Visit www.visitmediapa.com/fairtrade for event details and for information about Media and Fair Trade.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Testimonials From Past Clients - Comfort Keepers Mainline and Delaware County

Testimonials from Past Clients - Comfort Keepers serving Mainline, Delaware, Center and South Philadelphia and parts of Chester County served:A Few of Our Testimonials I wish to commend the Comfort Keepers' care giver, Lisa. She is outstanding and has improved my mother's quality of life 100%. I have a tremendous comfort level knowing Lisa is with her. Lisa takes care of all her needs and they have a great relationship. In addition to taking care of her physical needs, Lisa takes her to the Senior Center where she gets interaction with all ages. I know this helps her psychological well being and she enjoys every minute. We truly appreciate all Lisa does for my mother and believe there could not have been a more perfect match. Thank you for caring. Wayne, PAWe are closing in on two years that Comfort Keepers has made it possible for my mom to stay in her home despite the continuing advance of her dementia. It is an understatement to say that we could not possibly have done it without you. For the last year or more, Glenn and Marie have been as dependable as clockwork and as caring as your brand name implies. When problems have arisen they have been responsive and concerned. And in the year before that, not once did the assigned personnel let me down. There were always there, 24/7 (and 365). Essentially, they have permitted me to sleep at night. I also do not want to overlook Liz's contribution to all of this. When I have had a problem, she has been there to respond - day and night. I cannot imagine what she must go through to coordinate vacations, sick days, my mom's hospitalizations and the myriad of other issues Liz must confront. What I do know is that when I call, I get a smile on the other end of the line and a prompt and friendly solution to my problem. She is a valuable employee and one of whom you should be proud. Those who know me know that I throw compliments around like manhole covers. I approached this whole thing two years ago full of trepidation. But it has been a pleasure working with all of you from the start .... Merion, PAMyself and Family want to send you our appreciation for helping give Mom wonderful care and support. It's hard to find someone with compassion and dedication and the wisdom to pitch in and help ... I have to share with you what a difference [Kathy] has made in our home. Always giving 100% making sure Mom is clean and comfortable and safe. Mom depends on Kathy like she's a member of our family and she sure has fit in like one. You know how difficult older people are to make them feel wanted and useful. Kathy has done that every day. As you know, my dad has been difficult ... Kath makes Dad feel good knowing Mom is well cared for. If you remember, she even talked him into going to the hospital when the ambulance drivers couldn't. She got Dad to the car and the four of us drove him to Delaware County where they found he was dehydrated. That's why he fell. ... Thank you all. Clifton Heights, PAPaul and I want to express our sincere gratitude and appreciation to you for introducing Lisa into our lives. She is truly a warm, compassionate and loving person and always maintains a high level of professionalism. We felt at ease when leaving Lisa in charge of Dad's needs in our absence. Lisa is a very special caregiver -- reliable, dependable and caring. Frank became comfortable with her and they had a great relationship. She was the answer to our prayers and she responded well above and beyond the call of duty. Her strength and encouragemenet got us through a very difficult time. We will miss her as we always looked forward to her coming to our home -- always prompt and courteous. Thank you Comfort Keepers for sending an angel into our lives. God Bless everyone at Comfort Keepers. Drexel Hill, PA

Duck race will benefit senior citizens - Delaware County Daily Times article May 2, 2009

On May 16, a flock of ducks will be dumped into the Delaware River and they will race to the finish line to help wishes come true for county seniors.This whole scenario is the brainchild of Springfield residents Sallie and Clark Bongaardt, who are using the event to fund the non-profit Not-To-Be-Forgotten Foundation.In 2002, Sallie Bongaardt formed Comfort Keepers, a provider of assisted living-style care for seniors and the disabled in their homes after both of her parents died two months apart in 1999.Through that service, her employees have seen the struggles many seniors face and Bongaardt wanted to give them hope so she formed the Not-To-Be-Forgotten Foundation in September.Last fall, the foundation helped the Delaware County Office of Services for the Aging provide 59 seniors with $300 of home fuel costs.“Two people were bed-bound with literally no heat,” Bongaardt said. “Another was a blind, partially deaf veteran of a foreign war.”They also hope to hold elder exploitation and medication educational programs.With the Pennsylvania Ducky Derby, featuring fowl of the rubber variety, Bongaardt wants to create a solid foundation to start providing wishes for seniors.“I’m hoping that the duck derby will raise sufficient funds to get the going on a big scale,” the foundation’s executive director said.She’s already had one request. A county lady was feeding her cats and dogs instead of herself and Bongaardt said she’s hoping her foundation can help fill that gap.She also has other ideas in mind.Bongaardt said some of the homes her staff enter need maintenance as residents are using buckets to catch the water coming through the holes on the roof.“It really tugs at your heart,” she said.Another senior, whose a huge baseball fan, has told them, “Before I die, I just want to see that new stadium.”To raise funds to fulfill these, the foundation is hosting the Pennsylvania Ducky Derby on May 16.Governor Printz Park opens at 1 p.m. that day for activities such as face painting and a moonbounce. Ducks can be adopted up to 3 p.m.“It’s going to be a fun, family day,” Bongaardt said.Depending on the tide, the ducks will be dropped into the river at 4 p.m. The grand prize winner wins a week stay at Sea Isle City, N.J. Second place takes an HDTV.Leading up to the race, a 12-feet inflatable duck is making its rounds throughout the county to encourage people to adopt the critters.Bongaardt just wants to honor those who came before her.“They are the (ones) who built our bridges, fought our wars, who made our country exactly what it is today,” she said.Remembering her call to help seniors, Bongaardt reiterated, “I’ve got to do this. I’ve got to do this now.”Ducks can be adopted for $5 each or six for $25 online at http://www.ntbff.org/ or by calling 888-521-4333. They can also be adopted at Comfort Keepers or Best Buy in Springfield, at any M&T Bank in the county or the Granite Run Mall. this article originally printed and shared from the Delaware County Daily Times on May 2, 2009, Kathleen Carey, writer kcarey@delcotimes.com
http://www.delcotimes.com/articles/2009/05/03/news/doc49fd07ca5705f826228526.txt

Friday, May 1, 2009

Older Americans Month May 2009 Springfield Library PA Veterans Museum and ntbf


May is Older Americans Month. A month that we could honor those who have served our country in previous times of war and peace especially our Older American Veterans who served during WWII, Korean and even Vietnam.
May is also a month that we could honor our Older Americans by doing an act of kindness for an elderly neighbor, relative or friend. Some things like bringing the trash cans to the curb or up from the curb to bigger things like cutting grass or painting for a senior could really make the difference in the life of an elderly person and honor him or her during the month of May.
To honor the month of May, Older Americans Month, Comfort Keepers and Baskets by Donna decorated the window at the local library in Springfield, PA with items from the PA Veteran’s Museum in Media, information on Not-To-Be-Forgotten Foundation ntbf and several antiques to remind our Older Americans of things they enjoyed when they were young. Take a look at the picture above of the window display and if you are in the Springfield PA area, stop in the library and see it in person. It is really terrific!

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Have you seen this 12 foot Duck? ntbf and adopt a duck for 5 bucks help a senior in Delaware County







Have you seen this duck? It is 12 foot tall and sits at the corner at Sproul Rd and Township Line in Springfield, PA. It is part of the fun of duckmania, the all duck fundraising event to help grant wishes and assist low income seniors with heating oil and other things they might need. The 12 foot duck is on display to encourage the passerbys to adopt a small yellow bathtub size duck for $5 to race in the Duck Derby to be held on May 16th at Governor Printz Park, Essington, Pa.

Why Adopt A Duck?Not-To-Be Forgotten Foundation wants you to adopt a duck to race in the ‘PA’Ducky Derby during Older American Month.1 duck for 5 bucks will help heat a Senior’s home for 8.33 hours.6 ducks for 25 bucks will help heat a Senior’s home for 1.5 days. 12 ducks for 50 bucks will help heat a Senior’s home for 3.5 days.Just look what a difference you can make just by adopting a duck!
Join in the fun and come over to Governor Printz Park for a community day and watch the race live! Adopt a duck and he or she might just cross the finish line first. To see more about the event or ntbf, go to website. www.ntbff.org




Monday, April 20, 2009

2nd Annual Our Lady Perpetual Help Morton PA Expo and networking

2nd Annual OLPH Business Expo - The Ultimate Networking Opportunity
Morton, PA, April 2009  The Business Persons Network of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish, Morton is hosting its second annual Business Expo Thursday evening, April 23 from 7:00  9:00 in the parish hall, 2130 Franklin Ave. The Expo is free and open to the public. There will be refreshments and door prizes Parishioners, representing dozens of companies, trades, and fields, invite guests to enjoy an evening of networking, information, and prospecting. Exhibitors include but are not limited to: 1. ACN 2. Alayne Bell Design 3. Albert Cippoloni Jr. & Sons Inc. 4. All State Insurance Company 5. American Picture Framing 6. Arbonne International 7. C-21 Adele Shaw & Associates 8. Compliance Consultants Inc. 9. Delco Chamber of Commerce 10. EZ Living Concepts 11. Golf Ball Man 12. Keller Williams Real Estate 13. Knights of Columbus 14. McGuire Green Grass Service 15. Northwestern Mutual 16. Oliver Heating & Cooling 17. PRCoordinates 18. Respect Life Committee 19. Silpada Designer Jewelry 20. Sovereign Bank 21. Comfort Keepers

Lorraine Ranalli, author of Gravy Wars South Philly Foods, Feuds & Attytudes, will sign copies of her book and donate a portion of each sale to the parish. Please direct inquiries to PR Coordinates, 610-338-0229 or info@PRCoordinates.com. The OLPH Business Persons Network comprises a diverse group of Christian business people who hold strong moral values in business practice and a desire to improve the parish community by sharing ideas, networking, and supporting the parish in its daily mission.

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Women In Business Networking Event Delaware County Chamber of Commerce

If you haven't been to the best networking event for women in Delaware County, you are missing out! The Delaware County Chamber of Commerce's Women in Business Network rocks! I attend this group and women from all types of different businesses meet once a month to exchange business cards, chat and nibble on yummy appetizers. The events are held at terrific places including the Arts Center in Wallingford. The close to 85 women who attended that event in early 2009, had a fun time talking, exchanging cards and looking at art. This month the group is having a fiesta on cinco de mayo, May 5th, 2009. The ladies will convene at the Staybridge Suites located on Evergreen Drive in Glen Mills, PA right behind the Brinton Lake Shopping Center on Route 1. The time of the event is 11:30 am to 1pm and it will pool side weathering permitting. I am definitely going and encourage all ladies to get together, enjoy the sunshine and exchange business cards. If you are a member of the Chamber, the event is FREE. If you are a non-member the cost is $15.00. To rsvp for the event go to http://www.delcochamber.org/. Being a member of the Delaware County Chamber of Commerce is a very good investment for your business. I think the staff is wonderful and very helpful. I encourage everyone in Delaware County and the Delaware Valley to check it out. They have classes you can take, lots of networking and a supportive staff. If you are interested in attending a new member meeting as a guest to see what they have to offer, Contact Joanna Brune, the Director of Membership at 610-565-3677.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Prevent Falls: Tips for caregivers who afraid for elderly and senior family members, falling, tripping, accidents

20 Tips for Fall Prevention for Comfort Keepers® Clients and their Families

According to the National Centers for Disease Control and Prevention:
In the United States, one of every three people 65 years and older falls each year.
60 percent of seniors fall in their own homes
Older adults are hospitalized for fall-related injuries five times more often than they are for injuries from other causes.
Of those who fall, 20-30% suffer moderate to severe injuries that reduce mobility and independence, and increase the risk of premature death.

The client’s family can help our clients by remembering to follow these 10 fall prevention tips:
Make sure they have an annual medical check-up.
Make sure they have an eye examination at least once a year.
Have a pharmacist or physician review their medications to reduce interactions or side effects that might impede alertness and balance.
Install rails in appropriate places. (Towel racks may not be strong enough)
Replace the toilet with a higher toilet and/or install handrails.
Store eyeglasses within easy reach of the bed.
Arrange furniture so that outlets are available without the use of extension cords.
Wear proper footwear. Shoes, boots and slippers should provide good support and have good soles. Avoid loose slippers or stocking feet.
Add a strip along the edge of each step in a contrasting color to make it easier to see or use reflective anti-skid treads.
Keep often used items in cabinets you can reach easily without using a step stool.

Comfort Keepers® can help our clients by remembering to follow these 10 fall prevention tips:
Involve them in regular physical exercise to increase their lower body strength and improve their balance.
Eliminate tripping hazards in the home such as throw rugs and clutter.
Improve lighting in all rooms, including night-lights along walkways.
After a shower or bath, wipe up water immediately to prevent slipping. Suggest non-slip mats in the bathtub and on the shower floor.
Suggest a shower seat. It will allow the client to shower without getting tired.
Make sure the hand rails of all stairs are sturdy and encourage the client to use them.
Suggest a portable commode near the bed to eliminate nighttime trips to the bathroom.
Use walking aids and other safety devices for extra safety.
Keep a telephone near your bed.
Store heavy items in lower cupboards. http://www.comfortkeepers.com

There are many tools and materials available for teaching your clients and their families how to prevent a fall. Checkout the following websites for ideas:


- http://www.cdc.gov/ncipc/duip/fallsmaterial.htm
- http://www.nsc.org/issues/fallstop.htm
- http://www.gethealthyclarkcounty.org/injury_prev/senior.html

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Tea Party Not To Be Forgotten Foundation ntbf

Our Conscientious Acts of Kindness Campaign will kick off with a Tea Party in October 2009. Our special guests will be members of the senior population in Delaware County who are invited to bring family members and friends. All groups in attendance must have a senior citizen (60+ years of age) as a member of their party. The Tea Party will act as an outreach program focused on connecting the generations, bringing awareness to senior issues and challenging the younger generations and the community at large to take a daily interest in those seniors whose lives cross paths with their own by making conscientious choices to assist seniors in their neighborhoods, in their communities and in their families with purposeful acts of kindness. For instance, bringing trash cans up from the curb on trash day, assisting in unloading a grocery cart at the grocery store, making sure their walkways are safe by shoveling their snow or raking leaves. Bring your daughters, sons and your seniors to the Tea Party on October 24, 2009 at Villanova Conference Center, Villanova, PA. To read more about ntbf, go to http://www.ntbff.org/. To see more about Tea Party, go to website and click on events. Cost of Tea Party is $12 per person.

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

PA Veterans Museum in Media, PA

If you haven't been to the PA Veterans' Museum in Media, PA you have to go. It is absolutely amazing. There is so much to see and to learn in this wonderful tribute to our Veterans of Delaware County. There are displays as seen in this picture that show the reality of what WWII was like as well as glass cases full of actual weapons and other items such as helmets, flags and gear worn or used by soldiers. There is one case that even has a flag and a hat from a soldier in the German army during WWII. So much history right there in Delaware County. It is truly an amazing and wonderful place. Recently they showcased the Women in the Military movie that was made and have on diplay currently Women's military items and story of how women served and helped out in the war effort. It truly is a great place to visit and the best part is....it is FREE. No charge to take your kids in and look around. To learn more about it, go to http://www.paveteransmuseum.org/home/

Monday, April 6, 2009

FREE Networking Event for Women, Team Women Delaware County/Mainline hosts May 12, 2009 Springfield, PA


Springfield, PA – April 6, 2009 – The Mainline/ Delaware County Chapter of Team Women, a women only leads based networking group is hosting a FREE networking event on Tuesday, May 12, 2009 from 11:30 am to 1pm at Franklin Mint Federal Credit Union’s Brand New Springfield Branch located at 375 Baltimore Pike, Springfield, PA 19064 (next to Chuck E Cheese). Team Women (http://www.teamwomen.com/) is an international networking group that has local chapters limited to one woman per core profession. Each group is open to 30 women maximum and the Mainline/Delaware County Chapter is looking for women who want an opportunity to promote their business while ensuring the business has exclusivity for leads generated. To rsvp for this FREE informational session and networking event, call Melody at 610-996-6550 or send e-mail: melodymchugh@comcast.net.

Friday, April 3, 2009

Not To Be Forgotten Foundation's Duck Derby race showcased in kiosk at Granite Run Mall, Media, PA ntbff


The Granite Run Mall in Media, PA is graciously providing a kiosk to the Not-To-Be Forgotten Foundation to exhibit its May 16th Duck Derby and Community Day at Governor Printz Park, 101 Taylor Ave, Essington, PA. The kiosk is located on the lower level of the mall and if you stop by you will hear all about the ntbf Keeping Our Seniors Warm Campaign and upcoming events as well as the Duck Derby and duck adoption. You can adopt a duck for $5 (bucks) or you can adopt several ducks like 6 for $25 (bucks). Stop on by and pick up your adoption papers today and get your duck in the race. If your duck crosses the line first and wins the race you will win a great prize so stop by the Mall and find out what it is or go to http://www.ntbff.org/ to check out the race and buy a duck or two. Join a team or swim alone but don't miss out on the fun!!




Sunday, March 29, 2009

Technology Solutions Help Enhance Independence and Security For Seniors






New in-home technologies are helping a growing number of aging adults live independently longer. SafetyChoice™ by Comfort Keepers® is a line of in-home safety technology solutions that assists seniors in aging independently at home; whether used with or without in-home care provided by a caregiver. The initial release of products under the Safety Choice™ banner which includes personal emergency response systems (PERS) and other monitoring devices has been developed through a partnership between Guardian Medical Monitoring and CK Franchising, Inc., the franchisor for the Comfort Keepers franchise system.

Clark Bongaardt, owner of the Comfort Keepers franchise in Southeastern PA, said that technology is helping to complement and extend the personal, human touch provided to senior citizens by professional caregivers and family members. “With the senior population growing at a much faster pace than that of working-age Americans, it’s becoming more challenging to provide around-the-clock care for seniors at home,” Clark said.

Clark added that demographic studies show that the ratio of seniors to working-age Americans is expected to continue growing—30 percent from 2010 to 2020, and another 29 percent in the following decade.

In the meantime, seniors and their loved ones are discovering that technology solutions—such as those offered through SafetyChoice by Comfort Keepers —can effectively bridge the times when a caregiver can’t be present or when a senior may not yet need a caregiver in the home. Such technologies are monitored by professionals at central stations and provide phone notifications to first responders whether a professional caregiver, family member, neighbor or emergency personnel.

“These systems provide family members the peace of mind that their loved one can get help, even when a caregiver can’t be physically present with them,” Bongaardt said.

Responding to the increasing needs for care among seniors, Comfort Keepers recently introduced the new SafetyChoice™ line of technology products, which extends personal caregiving. These products include PERS Units as well as other monitoring devices that can detect certain activities by persons with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related illnesses, and a portable PERS device with GPS technology.

“Technologies like these, in combination with personal caregiving, lead to improved health outcomes and quality of life for seniors,” Bongaardt said. “These technologies make it possible for them to continue living at home—where they most want to be—safely, confidently, and independently.”

PERS units help seniors summon help quickly with the push of a button—reducing wait times for emergency assistance in the event of a fall, illness or other emergency at home. “By greatly decreasing the time for emergency help to arrive,” Bongaardt said, “emergency response systems help reduce the complications that can result from a fall or other emergency. The shortened wait time usually results in quicker and fuller recovery and an improved chance of returning to independent living.”

Bongaardt added, “Falls are one of the greatest concerns of the elderly.” The Centers for Disease Control has reported that more than a third of American adults 65 and older fall each year—and falls are the leading cause of death by injury for seniors.

Technology can be a good prescription for caregivers’ health, too, Bongaardt said. According to testimony delivered by the Alzheimer’s Association to the U.S. Senate Special Committee on Aging, one in eight caregivers providing care to those with Alzheimer’s becomes ill or injured as a result of caregiving. Technology can relieve some of the stress by giving family members the opportunity to take breaks from their caregiving responsibilities.

To learn more about the SafetyChoice™ by Comfort Keepers® in-home technology solutions in the Southeastern, PA area, call 610-543-6300


Comfort Keepers®
With over 550 independently owned and operated locations, Comfort Keepers is a leader in in-home senior care to promote independent living. Services include companionship, meal preparation, light housekeeping, grocery shopping, incidental transportation, laundry, recreational activities, personal care and technology products. For more information visit http://www.comfortkeepers.com/.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Not-To-Be Forgotten Duck Marches in St. Patrick's day Parade


On Saturday, March 14, 2009, the Not-To-Be Forgotten Duck marched in the St. Patrick's Day Parade in Springfield, PA. Accompanied by friends from Comfort Keepers, the duck strutted along the route giving out duck shaped lollipops to all the boys and girls along the route. The duck handed out invitations to the PA duck derby which will be held on May 16, 2009 in Essington, PA. The event is a Fundraiser for the Not-To-Be Forgotten Foundation (ntbf). ntbf is an organization in Delaware County, PA that assists senior citizens. Their last campaign included Keeping the Seniors Warm. A program whereby ntbf had a goal to give 100 seniors, 100 gallons of oil each. Along with assisting low income seniors ntbf also helps to grant wishes.


You can help a senior by adopting a duck for $5 to race in the PA duck derby on May 16th. All you have to do is go to the website http://www.ntbff.org/ and click on Adopt a duck for 5 bucks. Choose a team such as Melody and the quack pack or the Freckles. The winner of the race could receive one of the great prizes such as a week at the beach or flat screen tv. Don't wait, go to http://www.ntbff.org/ and adopt your duck for $5!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Testimonials from Past Clients - Comfort Keepers serving Mainline, Delaware, Center and South Philadelphia and parts of Chester County served:

A Few of Our Testimonials
I wish to commend the Comfort Keepers' care giver, Lisa. She is outstanding and has improved my mother's quality of life 100%. I have a tremendous comfort level knowing Lisa is with her. Lisa takes care of all her needs and they have a great relationship. In addition to taking care of her physical needs, Lisa takes her to the Senior Center where she gets interaction with all ages. I know this helps her psychological well being and she enjoys every minute. We truly appreciate all Lisa does for my mother and believe there could not have been a more perfect match. Thank you for caring. Wayne, PA

We are closing in on two years that Comfort Keepers has made it possible for my mom to stay in her home despite the continuing advance of her dementia. It is an understatement to say that we could not possibly have done it without you. For the last year or more, Glenn and Marie have been as dependable as clockwork and as caring as your brand name implies. When problems have arisen they have been responsive and concerned. And in the year before that, not once did the assigned personnel let me down. There were always there, 24/7 (and 365). Essentially, they have permitted me to sleep at night.
I also do not want to overlook Liz's contribution to all of this. When I have had a problem, she has been there to respond - day and night. I cannot imagine what she must go through to coordinate vacations, sick days, my mom's hospitalizations and the myriad of other issues Liz must confront. What I do know is that when I call, I get a smile on the other end of the line and a prompt and friendly solution to my problem. She is a valuable employee and one of whom you should be proud.
Those who know me know that I throw compliments around like manhole covers. I approached this whole thing two years ago full of trepidation. But it has been a pleasure working with all of you from the start .... Merion, PA

Myself and Family want to send you our appreciation for helping give Mom wonderful care and support. It's hard to find someone with compassion and dedication and the wisdom to pitch in and help ... I have to share with you what a difference [Kathy] has made in our home. Always giving 100% making sure Mom is clean and comfortable and safe. Mom depends on Kathy like she's a member of our family and she sure has fit in like one. You know how difficult older people are to make them feel wanted and useful. Kathy has done that every day. As you know, my dad has been difficult ... Kath makes Dad feel good knowing Mom is well cared for. If you remember, she even talked him into going to the hospital when the ambulance drivers couldn't. She got Dad to the car and the four of us drove him to Delaware County where they found he was dehydrated. That's why he fell. ... Thank you all. Clifton Heights, PA
Paul and I want to express our sincere gratitude and appreciation to you for introducing Lisa into our lives. She is truly a warm, compassionate and loving person and always maintains a high level of professionalism. We felt at ease when leaving Lisa in charge of Dad's needs in our absence. Lisa is a very special caregiver -- reliable, dependable and caring. Frank became comfortable with her and they had a great relationship. She was the answer to our prayers and she responded well above and beyond the call of duty. Her strength and encouragemenet got us through a very difficult time. We will miss her as we always looked forward to her coming to our home -- always prompt and courteous. Thank you Comfort Keepers for sending an angel into our lives. God Bless everyone at Comfort Keepers. Drexel Hill, PA

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Common Caregiving Myths

Dispelling Caregiving Myths
Caregiving is an emotional subject which is likely the reason so many myths surround it. This article focuses on dispelling some of these caregiving myths. It’s a must-read for anyone currently involved in caregiving including those who are considering hiring or perhaps even becoming a caregiver. Below are some common myths related to caregiving:
Caregiving is a negative experience
For some, this is true. There are a number of reasons why a caregiver/care receiver relationship doesn’t work out. However for the majority of people, caregiving is a rewarding experience. Caring for another is a wonderful way to feel important and it’s a way to make a positive difference in another’s life. A sense of companionship, mutual respect, and self-worth are some of the benefits caregivers receive. For many, caring for others fills a void in their lives.
Adult children no longer provide care for aging parents at home
While stories of adult children abandoning their aging parents make for interesting reading, this is just not true. What is true is that families live further apart from one another than ever before and that situation sometimes presents caregiving challenges. But adult children are not abandoning their parents. Advances in communication make it easy for adult children and aging parents to stay in regular contact and improvements in transportation make it easy to be together whenever necessary. With services such as Comfort Keepers available, quality care is easily available to those who require someone "on location" that can help with care.
Stress and excessive demands increase instances of elder abuse
Unfortunately this is true. However, it’s also true that excessive stress caused by any type of work can trigger unforeseen outbursts towards objects or others. Interestingly, instances of elder abuse at the hands of a caregiver are higher in families where there is a history of abuse or alcoholism. Aging parents feel guilt for the pain they caused their children in the past. Because of this, they find themselves accepting abusive treatment from other family members who are now in charge of their care.
Most caregivers have a plan in place before the need arises
Not true. If you don’t yet have a caregiving plan, you’re definitely not alone. Most adult children do not tackle this issue until they are forced, meaning it doesn’t usually happen until a parent becomes ill, starts showing signs of the onset of age-related conditions such as dementia or Alzheimer’s disease, or until one aging parent dies and the other has trouble resuming life after the death of his or her spouse.
Caregiver resources are insufficient
This is not true. Caregiver resources are fragmented and sometimes difficult to comprehend and even access. But they’re out there. New legislation regarding caregiving and care receiving is constantly being introduced and approved. Finding caregiving resources to which you are entitled takes patience and determination, but they’re far from insufficient.
Different cultures don’t require different approaches to caregiving
Definitely false. Cultural beliefs and differences will vary the approach to caregiving and they should not be ignored. Today’s elderly place more importance on culture than do their children therefore those providing care must be sensitive to the fact that cultural differences do exist. For more information go to: http://www.comfortkeepers.com/

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Co-dependency, guilt, shame, loss and other emotions that erupt when taking care of an elderly loved one

The process of taking care of an elderly loved one usually starts out slow like any relationship. Even if its your mother and you have a relationship the beginning of the caretaking process is a new chapter in your lives that you are starting that you have not experienced before.
It usually starts out slow with you noticing mom struggling either physically or cognitively with daily things such as paying bills, missing meals, not cleaning the house, maybe an illness comes upon the person that slows him or her down and so on. At that time you usually start to collect your data about what is going on and you begin to address the needs as they come up. The needs are often minimal, do not require much of your time and frankly you like doing it because you want to help your loved one.
Then one day the caregiving begins to take on a life of its own. Usually the caregiver first notices it during the time of a crisis. The elderly loved one falls or goes into hospital for surgery, maybe has very bad flu or pneumonia at home and gets weak. The caregiver starts to go over the home more, be attentive to the person’s needs and finds that the caregiving becomes overwhelming at times trying to balance helping the elderly person and taking care of his or her own family.
The crisis time is overwhelming and it is the first realization of what full time caregiving is, but the caregiver knows that the crisis will end, the elderly person will go back to his or her level of functioning and everyone’s life goes back to normal.
But what is normal? Normal is that sense of reality that we live everyday. If I am single than normal to me is having a date, eating alone or going out with friend. Normal for married life is having dinner with spouse and life together. In other words normal is the reality in which we live. For caregivers, normal can be going over to mom’s one time a week to pay bills, get her groceries, etc. When a crisis hits, normal changes but when the crisis is over our expectation is we will go back to normal.
But what happens over time when normal starts to change? It happens to all of us. Again if I am single and normal is a date or dinner with a friend but then I get married normal then changes. If I start taking care of mom and I go one time of week and that is normal but a stroke happens and mom is now paralyzed on one side, my normal has now just permanently changed.
What caregivers don’t realize is that they never really adjust to normal after the crisis. When you are single and you get married, you end up adjusting to this new life where you are now partnered with someone and the expectation is you will do things together, help each other maybe raise kids together. We go into that with wonderful and hopeful expectations that our feelings will be positive. No one goes into caregiving for an elderly person with the expectation that we will do things together - as a result of the caregiving, no one goes into the caregiving relationship with the expectation that we will partnered, joined at the hip, enjoying this new found time we have together. Now please don’t hear this wrong. You may have a wonderful relationship with an elderly loved one and yes, you may feel that caregiving gives you that extra time to spend with that person that you might not have had. I am not talking about that.
I am talking about the relationaship between a caregiver who starts out with good intentions of helping and ending up in a very challenging dysfunctional marriage to their elderly loved one. See over time the relationship that started out as me feeling good cause I could come once a week to pay bills turns into mom calling me and asking why I can’t come over that day. The normal feelings that I have experience of going over when I planned or can turns into a dependency that gets ugly and stirs up alot of old feelings, resentments and other such history between us.
For example, a mother who had a rocky relationship with daughter can be at first thankful that the daughter helps out. But as soon as the aging process takes over, the brain starts changing, maybe a memory impairment starts, that same mother can turn hostile and demanding often exhibiting old behaviors of being demanding and controlling on her children that they rebelled against as kids. The children who are now the caregivers start reacting to her behavior, the same way they did as children. This starts a boatload of feelings in the caregiver that they sometimes cannot express because they realize it does no good. Mom is always right, she will just deny it, she always has. So a new caregiving relationship that started out one time a week with the caregiver feeling okay or good about hellping out now starts to turn to dysfunction. What was once normal is now a new normal. What was once feelings of okay, maybe positive during that weekly visit is now dread. Is she going to make me feel guilty or bad about something when I visit? Lately I cannot do enough for her, nothing is ever good enough.
If you find yourself saying these things, you need to get some support because you are probably reacting to her behavior. In similar we do the same thing with our teenagers. One day they are these cut wonderful kids and then somehow that normal day turns into a nightmare of odd behavior, unusual interests and talk and we now have a new normal day with the teenagers. Adjusting to the new normal is not easy and as caregivers we have to look at ourselves. Not that we are doing something wrong or bad to feel guilty about but rather, am I reacting to what my elderly loved is doing or sayiing? What history does that behavior hold for me? If she did that to me as a kid am I reacting as I did then?
If these reactions are occurring then you might be co-dependent with your elderly loved one. This means you have trouble identifying where you stop and the elderly person starts. You have lost boundaries. The ability to act on situations than react and the ability to know that it is okay to say no and that you don’t have to feel guilty about that. Comfort Keepers provides resources for caregivers feeling guilty and overwhelmed.

Long distance caregiving, the struggles, worries and concerns for your elderly loved one

Any caregiver that is more than an hour from their elderly loved one could be considered a long distance caregiver.
The term long distance was applied many years ago to our phone system and was used for calls that were considered out of the area. It also implied that if you were making a long distance call, you could not quickly get to the person you were calling. Nowadays, a long distance caregiver is in the same situation, the caregiver cannot quickly get to the elderly person they are helping.
This makes for much stress and often worry in regards to the health and safety of the elderly loved one. Not being able to jump in the car to go and check on mom or being able to swing by on a regular basis can result in increase worry over eating habits, sleeping increase or decrease, memory impairment progression and other physical illnesses such as diabetes, high blood pressure or heart problems.
Long distance caregivers need to find someone close to the person such as family member, neighbor or even paid caregiver to go in and visit with the elderly loved one. During this visit, the person should take note of whether the person is eating, by looking casually around the kitchen, clues such as food decreasing in the refrig and cabinets probably means they are cooking it, containers in the trash show they ate something, the dirty dishes in sink may also clue you in if there is movement in the kitchen.
Keeping on an eye on such things as body odor, house odor - is there a smell of urine?, changing clothes, is laundry filling up? and other clues will help to know if the person is bathing or not. The visitor can be very casual when looking around taking notes in his or head about what they see and then reporting it back to you.
If your loved one has pills in bottle, the pills should be decreasing. One time I went to see a client who lived alone and said she was taking her pills as prescribed. I asked if I could see the name of the medication, she said sure. When I picked up the full bottle it was dated a month ago and the pills were to be taken 3 times a day. Clearly she had not taken any of them or was taking sporadically. Pill boxes can cause problems too as people with memory impairment can take the wrong days of the week, forget to take pills or mix things together.
If you have a person who is willing to check in on your loved one, ask him or her to look for signs for eating, sleeping, changing clothes, medications and even driving issues. Ask them to call you with concerns so that you can be aware of changes that are taking place. This will enable you to know that you need to pay a visit sooner than you thought or more frequently. To read more articles like this, Comfort Keepers provides various resources for caregivers.

Monday, February 16, 2009

Are you caregiver who feels guilty alot, if so, you are not alone

Do you have an elderly mother who calls you and says can you come over and do X? and when you say, I can’t today, I have plans, she then says something that makes you feel really guilty for saying no? If so, then know you are not alone. This is a common experience among caregivers.
One reason it happens is caregivers sometimes lose boundaries with the person they are taking care of. Over time, the caregiver loses sight of where he or she stops and the elderly person begins so the relationship becomes one of dependency. The elderly person becomes dependent on the adult children and that is when the co-dependency starts. Caregivers constantly falling in the co-dependency trap of trying to meet all the persons needs and requests while giving up your own family’s needs to take care of the elderly person. One way to know if you are co-dependent with your loved one is: is the caregiving interfering with my own family life? Am I missing my husband’s birthday dinner to take mom to doctor?, Am I arguing with him more over mom and taking care of her? Are my children becoming more distant and resentful towards their grandmother?
Co-dependency can happen very easily and your elderly loved may never be satisfied so no matter how much you do or how often and it never seems to be enough. And that one moment when you can’t go over and help, the elderly person then takes the tactic of trying to make you feel guilty. If you feel guilty, you may be in a co-dependent relationship.
Like co-dependency in an addictive or abusive relationship, caregivers often become angry and resentful with their elderly loved one but not able to express it. Whenever the caregiver tries to speak up, the elderly person acts as if he or she did nothing wrong in asking for your help, acts irrationally and may even through more guilty on you by making statements such as well I was there for you when your husband lost his job 20 years ago!
If you find that you are in a co-dependent relationship with your elderly loved one, you need support. Make sure you talk to friends who have elderly parents as they will probably validate your experience and give you suggestions on how to handle it the next time it comes up. Co-dependency is a very unhealthy way to live and can cause you stress, physical and emotional problems.

Seniors who won't change their clothes, elderly who wear clothes several days in row

Do you have a senior that won’t change his or her clothes? If so, you are not alone. Normally these behaviors occur in people who start to have memory impairment or some nutritional deficiencies that are affecting the brain the the thinking.
For example, people who have memory impairment begin to lose track of time and are not able to identify when a day begins and when it ends. Consequently the person tends to stay in the same clothes as there is no break in the day. Others are able to identify it is night and change into bed clothes but then when they arise they go right back into the same clothes they had on for last three days. Caregivers become frustrated saying, mom has 20 outfits right in her closet but she won’t put them on, she wants to wear the same thing all the time.
If you have a person with memory impairment, 20 choices is too much and overwhelms them. They get frustrated trying to pick out which top goes with what pants, colors are difficult to see if they have vision problem and the complexities of having to put something together is unmanageable to them. People with memory impairments often need cueing which is when you tell them, put your arm in this hole, then bring the shirt around your back and then your other arm in this hole. You have to direct them how to do it. These are simple steps to a person with well brain but for someone suffering with memory impairment and even the disease of dementia, it is an overwhelming task. When confronted with an overwhelming task, all humans either just don’t do it or they try to do what is most comfortable, i.e. wear the same thing.
One thing you could do is cut down on choices. Give your loved one maybe 3 choices a week or 2 depending on their memory impairment and if they live alone. Giving limited choice often helps them and saying, mom this is your outfit for tomorrow we are going to doctor can help. Put a note on the garment and hang in on the door they always look at like the bathroom or closet. Take it out of the mix of several outfits and set it by itself. If you have a caregiver who comes in or its you, have that person take the outfit out of the closet and say this is so pretty, I bet you would look handsome in it, how about if we sponge bath or shower and change into this outfit?
Dealing with changing clothes is a tricky business. Be careful about making up stories or lying to your loved one because if he or she is having a lucid moment and catches you in the lie, it can backfire on you. Be upfront and just tell you loved one that clothes can only be worn for two days and if they are in agreement keep track via a calendar and say it’s so I know when the wash needs to be done. My schedule is busy and keeping track of your laundry will help me to know when I need to stay a little longer for washer to run. Be creative and think of ways to get them to change clothes. Life is an art not a science. There is no easy fix for this refusing to change clothes behavior.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Stay in your home with help, assistance and live life at home

Lubbock resident Catherine Baldwin Benge has experienced the benefits of Comfort Keepers two ways - first as a family member of a client, then as a client herself.
Catherine first worked with Comfort Keepers in 2005 when she turned to the company to supplement her mother's care. Catherine's mother, Pearl Cox, was a resident at Grand Court and enjoyed visits from Comfort Keepers' caregivers for about a year or so before she passed away.
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"Comfort Keepers always did well with her, so I called them when I was looking ahead for assistance with my needs," Catherine says. "I felt like they were easy to communicate with and the people they sent were always efficient. They have a way about them which makes adjusting to care easier."
Catherine, who was a teacher for 21 years, was diagnosed with ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis), commonly referred to as Lou Gehrig's Disease, about two and a half years ago. Until a few months ago, she managed quite well on her own, but last autumn her symptoms progressed to the point where extra assistance with daily tasks was necessary. That's when Catherine again turned to Comfort Keepers, this time for her own care.
Today Catherine is visited by a Comfort Keepers' caregiver four times a week for two hours in the morning. In addition to cooking breakfast, changing linens and helping with laundry, the caregiver assists Catherine with bathing, curling her hair, and getting dressed. Catherine says they will soon be adding stretching exercises to the morning routine.
"They are easy to deal with," says Catherine, who is particularly complimentary of her caregiver Cindy. "Anything I want to do, she's able to do."
Catherine says she especially appreciates the flexibility of Comfort Keepers' services. For example, Cindy will arrive very early in the morning to help Catherine get ready for an early morning flight out of Lubbock. On Sunday mornings, Cindy comes early so Catherine is ready for church on time.
Comfort Keepers, located at 8207 Hudson Ave. in Lubbock, provides an array of in-home, non-medical care services that includes companionship, meal preparation, personal care, incidental transportation, light housekeeping, grocery shopping, and more. As with Catherine, many clients simply require assistance with the activities of daily living. Comfort Keepers can help where needed so clients maintain their independence in the comfort of their own homes. Comfort Keepers provides services in the home, assisted living facility, hospital or retirement community.
For Catherine, who lives with her husband, Charles, and son, Tim Baldwin, Comfort Keepers is an excellent supplement to the medical care she receives, as well as a help to her family. The extra level of non-medical assistance Comfort Keepers can provide ensures that all Catherine's needs are met, and that in turn allows her to remain at home.
"My goal is to stay at home, and choosing Comfort Keepers allows me to stay here where I'm comfortable," says Catherine. "They're very dependable and trustworthy, and they've adapted as my needs wonderfully."
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